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About Traci Lagos

Traci Lagos is an author of why choose, reverse harem, sex positive fantasy romance series.

Traci Lagos is my pen name. Born and raised in a small town, I never moved farther than 60 miles away from all of my closest family until after age 16. My mother frequently took me on library trips, where I would devour books that were way too old for me. Reading was my favorite pastime, so much so that I would get in trouble for reading during classes!

Before becoming an author, I worked as a waitress, a prep cook, a clerk at a law office, the admin at an all girls’ college admissions office, and as a data entry clerk at an insurance company. When the recession hit in 2008, I learned what it was like to live on unemployment checks doing part-time work where I could find it.

Fortune favored me a few years later when I found full-time work with great benefits. But it still wasn’t enough for me. Ever since I wrote my first story at age 10, I’ve wanted nothing more than to make a living as an author. That’s still my dream, and I’m actively pursuing it.

I now live in a much bigger city and have found a great community of writers as well as a fantastic community of polyamorous friends who make it work.

While reverse harem isn’t quite what ethical polyamory is all about, I hope that my stories will intrigue and captivate you, just as the first few RH books captured my heart. RH is what first propelled me to learn whether anything like it might actually be possible and started me down the path of learning more about the philosophy and lifestyle of ethical polyamory.

Let your curiosity guide you, and never be afraid to chase your dreams.

Thanks for stopping by my digital home. I’d love to hear from you. What first got you reading?

Email me at tracilagos at and let’s chat!

Happy reading!
Traci Lagos